Picture this, you’re experiencing life happily...
You sleep when rest is needed, you talk out your problems with your partner, your smile seems contagious, your body is fluid and functioning perfectly, your finances aren’t a matter of worry, and sex is amazeballs!! But just like that, one day it just flips like the perfect pancake, and most of your “pancake life” landed…..in a pretty shitty position.
Now some things aren’t communicated the way they used to be. You’re losing the value and security you had with yourself, life is throwing stress like its the new shade, and you have NO remembrance ordering beef with the universe! When this happens, sex can be the last thing on your mind, the first thing you want to avoid, or the one thing you wish could still be right in life.
For most women, noticing a decrease in libido is devastating. It comes along with a host of problems like,
• Sudden/prolonged decrease of desiring sexual activity
• Decrease in sexual stamina
• Difficult time naturally lubricating
• Lack of pleasurable sensations
• Disinterest in initiating sex
• Being concerned with your lack of sexual activity
and so on. The lack of sexual desire can either come directly or collectively from a few variables in your life. Before completing this reading, if you or some-woman you love is experiencing this it is important to remember all women exist in this space once or a few times in their life, and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. If anything it’s your body’s way of communicating with you that your attention is needed elsewhere, and outside of sex. Take a breath, listen to her, and develop your ability to be vulnerable with you. I’ve called into creation, Seven Sacred Steps Back To A Healthy Libido that I’d like to share with you. But first, let’s touch on some of those variables that rip the health of your precious libido apart if not properly taken care of.
1. Mental/Phycological. Sexual desire can be hard to reach when you’re experiencing things like:
•Prolonged/Spike in anxiety or depression
•Low self-esteem/body issues
•Traumatic experiences, especially those related to sex
•Work or financial stress
As women, we naturally have a lot to focus on and if you have, or currently are experiencing any of these things in your life it can be one of the reasons your libido has decreased to where it has.
2. Hormones….. They’re AMAZING, right?
Until they’re not
•Menopause and the symptoms that follow during the transition process (low interest, dry or painful sex)
•Pregnancy and breastfeeding, being mentally and emotionally drained and or just experiencing these changes have shown to negatively affect the libido in SOME women.
•Beginning or ending the use of BC (your body starts to mask or show its hormonal issues resulting in a probable disinterest in sex.)
Our hormones play a big factor in the state of health our libido resides, so if we are hormonally thrown off it can even become difficult to naturally produce enough fluids for enjoyable sex…. Let alone the BURNING desire!! Luckily, in following the Seven Sacred Steps Back To A Healthy Libido, you’ll be utilizing one of the best tools known to woman that helps to restore balance to your hormones as well as increase the natural production of your slippery fun.
3. Relationship issues. Don’t run on me now, you’ve already made it this far! 😉
Relationship stability can make or break a woman’s libido. It’s important to know what to look for so that you may approach your issue from all levels. Certain issues tend to linger on our mind like
•Lack of trust
•Poor sexual communication or connection
•Unsettled/ongoing/snowballing conflicts
Most women have an absolute need for their emotional connection with their partner to be intact and strong to have experiences that are “SATISFACTORY AND BEYOND” (Or whatever Buzz Lightyear said). And when things are chaotic within their relationship… it tends to “put the pussy in a drought”!!
4. Physical issues (a wide range)
•Pain during sex or lack of ability (or knowledge of how) to orgasm
•Medications
•Arthritis, Cancer, Diabetes, HBP, Coronary artery disease, and Neurological Diseases.
•Fatigue
•Surgery (genital, private, painful areas)
•Some lifestyle habits
Women aren’t computers, but we do have a lot of wiring connected to our sexual nature. As women, we hold the responsibility to tend to ourselves before and after noticing a change anywhere! I’ve put together Seven Sacred Steps Back To A Healthy Libido, for you. And if you aren’t facing any major physical issues it should help you in more ways than one.
Join me and several others on the Triple S Train back to a healthy libido, and enjoy your release each and every time.
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